hey. i send him that post (where i said i kept thinking 'maybe baby died') as well as the other one. he didn't say anything at all about what happened. just stayed with my response. i think he might be realising why it is that some theorists say you shouldn't really talk about your life. that me knowing that he has kids affects me etc. and that there is no need for it. i don't need to know. whatever it was he was in good form on Tuesday and he didn't talk about terminating me. so.. guess that is all that matters to me.