Thank you for your story. In couples therapy this last weekend, I was told that expecting him to hold a job and other such activities that are part of being an adult is being too motherly. Apparently. I am expected to just put up with it and deal with him not working and finding himself. With my frustration, I am glad that he will be going home for a little while because it's becoming very frustrating for me. I love him, but I really feel like I am approaching a breaking point for me.