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Originally Posted by Artchic528
Actually, the overwhelming majority of my online interactions with guys consists of me sending the same message to every guy I meet, "Hey, would you like to talk?" and then the guys usually saying nothing in return. I don't see how that comes off as clingy at all.
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You do recognize that you completely misinterpreted my post, right? Even though I gave examples of the interactions you've had and shared with us?
I was clearly not talking about "hello"s. Please reread my previous post now so that you can see what I was actually saying.
And, just because a bunch of guys don't respond doesn't mean that the others don't deserve the effort of an interesting first message. Lots of people totally ignore "hey how are you" because those people aren't necessarily even reading the profiles and just messaging everyone hoping for some reply. i never replied to those types of messages either.
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