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what is the shoving match about?

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Alex, I think your question hits the nail on the head. The issue was not really important. It really didn't matter if I agreed with him or not, on the particlar topic because the only thing that matters there is what i belive and think. The "shoving" match is about me being able to "take my power" as T calls it. I wind up in that victim place and have a hard time climbing out of it. Otherwise, I wouldn't care what he thinks about this topic.

Thanks.