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Originally Posted by Bongo&
Thanks for all who replied
She said she was worried about 'us' and was upset and needed to talk to me but I was just too tired, should I be made to feel bad?
Also an old female friend who I've not seen for 9 years recently got back in touch and we went for a drink tonight. Now she's mad I can stay out late with someone else but not talk to her late when she wants to
My head is spinning. Am I in the wrong??
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I don't know how you should feel. Maybe she was trying to guilt trip you, maybe she really feels that way.
Your girlfriend says you are not there for her when she's feeling down. Is this true? Have you asked her HOW she wants you to be there for her?
Is it true that you don't have empathy for her, or that you're not interested in how she feels?
Have you recommended she find a therapist to talk to?
Just some things for you to think about.