I was made to have a hand in my hair by a female bother me.....In the moment I didn't think it was a big deal. Anyway it took someone who wasn't even there to bring it back up in my memory, only to have me examine that it was wrong.

I had a problem, didn't say anything at the time with a family member touching my husband's bald head. I know she didn't mean anything by it was just the wrong thing to do....Maybe cause he was a cheater and I was feeling vulnerable subconsciously, although she didn't know that. Also the fact that he my husband use to joke then admit then joke they he had been with one of my family members but would never say who...Anyway, yea a complicated example.

Corporate America handshake is a must, a pat on the back is okay as well. Other than that everything is normal, but I understand survivor issues regarding touch