That's what I thought as well. It's been a difficult time for all of us and if anything we've only grown closer. They've grown father apart with their father due to the divorce and his relocation. He's changed so much that they want their old dad back but my ex has no idea that he's behaving so differently. Their therapist sort forced them into agreeing to a meeting with their father which didn't accomplish anything. They voiced their thoughts and concerns and my older one is very disappointed. I'm thinking that's why she might want to separate us more. She calls us a trio and that are bond is so strong that we need time apart. We don't see it all unhealthy and we get along well and like the same things. Idk.