I can quit at any time with no explanation, I can tell the woman something or not, I do not have to answer any question, I do not have to do or even consider anything the woman says. I can find a new one, I can see more than one at one time. She only knows what I decide to reveal. She has to stay back, she is not allowed to call me just to chat or come by my house. She does not get to play with me. I don't see the woman as having more power than I do.