Yeah I think it's the fact that you can make the person into whatever you want! Any fantasy can be molded to them because you really don't see any of their flaws or really in this case I barely know anything about this person so I think of all kinds of things that maybe I think I'm lacking in my relationship right now. Although I know what I am lacking can not be filled by another person it's inner work I need to figure out I know I can't jump from one person to another trying to fill the voids. Thanks for your reply and support!