Well we aren't in other people's heads and we don't really know what they are thinking. I warn you against guessing what he might be thinking or wanting. In my personal long life experience this is not a man and a life style a young woman needs to get involved in. I'd be worried if my daughter devoted her life to someone you described ( not saying he is a bad person). It's ok staying friends but warn against obsessing about him. Going for people who needs fixing never works.

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