We are all different, age is different from sex/gender, me personally I have used tinder from people younger to mostly older, bi.

I joined another site which the richer pays, using the escort word is discouraged though. I don't receive pay half the time but just enjoy their company, at most cuddling and talking for hours. We communicate what we want first. If I feel I just want to cuddle, then I tell em make it clear.

I made a relationship with a man my age. We were not expecting it but we liked each other a lot. We share interests and that's what I think got us closer.

I have met people at stoplights. Friends bday parties, weddings, class. Work, and websites. You just gotta be confident, know what you want, be open minded, courteous, understanding/non judgemental, flexible, calm. It can be frustrating yes