I think your statement is probably very true for every major trauma that we live through. There are always so many out of the ordinary things that happen & so many people doing things that they wouldn't normally do, but feel compelled to do for whatever strange justification that go on in their minds. Choices that people make have consequenses & it seems to me that some people feel the need to see that consequenses/punishment for the actions are there & it seems that others have the need to let go of what happened for their healing process to start.

I think that the problem is that the people who want to see punishment for the actions tend to be very passionate & aren't willing to understand or often even respect the needs of the others who need to let go of what happened & get on with their lives. It seems to me that as long as this type of conflict continues, you are right,'It will never end'. As time goes on & it becomes less possible for those people to enforce the consequenses, it will probably calm down & things will go back closer to normal.

You all lived through a very horrible time & saw horrible things happen that would never happen under normal situations.....it is important for you to do what you need to do for your healing & not be pressured to do anything you can't do & still feel ok with your life.

It's not easy & never will be, but it is important to stand up for what you are feeling.
Debbie