T,

I am a fool for believing a heterosexual person (you) who accepts her LGB friends would be a "straight ally" and speak up. I forgot acceptance doesn't necessarily come with sticking your neck out publically.

When will being Queer become "worthy" of local psychologists speaking up?

And of course, you told me that I shouldn't try to recruit you as an ally. You don't understand how we need allies. We need straight allies to use their privilege to advocate for us. Speak out in the damn conservative churches. We can't all come out!