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Originally Posted by Bill3
This whole situation, then, is brand new ground for you and exceedingly painful in view of the abandonments of the past.
(((((Petra5ed)))))
I'm sorry for the great pain. 
Yes, but this comes with the territory of being a therapist. It happens and he knows that it happens. It seems to me that it is his job to stay, to manage the situation, and to help you through--not to repeatedly suggest that you go elsewhere. |
Thanks for showing your understanding Bill, it means a lot to me. I agree that it comes with the territory of being a therapist, and certainly being a therapist to someone like me. I have wanted more than people could give my whole life, from teachers, friends parents, etc, because I keep expecting someone to love me unconditionally which is of course, futile.
My therapist is a good person. He could easily take advantage of me. I feel bad that I am this needy, and I'm ready to change finally.