If a guy wants you, he will let you know. He's just not that in to you. Seriously. And I think it's kind of insulting to analyze a potential partner to this extent. To say, you need this and this and this and I can give it to you and then you'll be happy. That's kinda one-sided, for one thing. And it completely ignores what you need to be happy. Why are you afraid to look at what you need? This was a HUGE question for me. So much easier to fix someone else than to question myself.