I have been hurt by therapy, but that being said I came into therapy like a walking wound. I feel like a child sometimes around my therapist, in terms of my desires, but I think like an adult now. I am no longer a child and I never will be. That to me is the biggest difference.

Here is the confusing part to me, if you have stuffed all the emotion of a bad childhood, and because of this you are having these unhealthy attachments, then is it the therapist that's pulling the strings and traumatizing you or is it just your issues, and you were already traumatized? I cant hold my therapist accountable for my emotional instability, when he's not the one who abused me, he's not the parent that left me, or the mother that beat me, or anyone who caused me trauma. He is the reflection of all that I wanted and missed as a child. That is painful, but it is what it is.