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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Not everyone is ready for everything all at once.
Some of us need to move forward and meet our milestones in life in stages.
If I had been moved in with a man in my barely 20's it would have been too much too soon and I would have bailed too. No matter how much I loved him.
Its not BS just because its different from what you would do, individuals have individual needs.
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I'll be honest, I too have been in the place where I felt I needed to bail because it became too intense too fast. I have done that even recently. I'm not sure where that idea came from really because some people don't handle the intensity well.
Passion and strong infatuation mind you, do not equate to intense in my mind. That is different. I mean everything relationship wise moving too fast getting too serious, making strong commitments too early whether it is me or the partner doing so. I could be passionate and fuly infatuated and still make rational decisions. once I lose that rationality I feel out of control and that's when I'd bail.