I do agree and well said, much better than I could have put it and I too have been rejected at times so I am with you on that.

I do think at times some women may actually feel that way like they don't do it to make it worse, and do think the guy is nice but even in those cases I think it still pours salt in the wound by trying too hard to be nice and let someone down gently.

Fact: rejection is like running really fast down the street and hitting a brick wall that knocks you on your *****. NO amount of covering that wall with nice words will soften the blow, the guy will always feel "knocked on his *****"