I have been chatting with someone for quite awhile. I'm a straight female and I was led to believe he is a straight male. We are both in our 30s.

I am starting to question his orientation now though.

First of all, he denies ever having any sexual experience with a man, but he says he is "Not against it." He even says when he is bored with women he will probably try it.

Also from what I know about him, he has some sexual issues. Even though he has only had sex with women, he uses prostitutes a lot and has trouble having orgasms during regular sex. He has never been married, never had a real girlfriend. In fact he seems deeply misogynistic and distrustful of women.

I find it strange a straight male would be so "open" to homosexual experiences. Even though he hasn't had one, he's obviously open to the idea.

Is it possible he is actually gay but just hasn't let himself be gay?