Another update, please read: I went on a dinner date with D last night and we talked for about 2 hours. He asked me a lot of questions, about my family, my job, my music. I also told him about caregiving for my parents and my grief process. I did not get to ask him many questions, though I did ask about his nieces and music background. When we were done eating, I said, "can I stay in touch with you on facebook" and he said, "sure". I was feeling let down because he did not ask to see me again. When I left, he smiled and said he would see me around the conference. When I went back to my hotel, I could not stop smiling about this date.

Tonight at the conference, I was standing at a table eating with my church members and D walked up and said he wanted to join us. He said 'how are you?' to me, and I said, good. Then he proceeded to talk to my minister and lay leader. When we were alone for a minute, I asked him how his day was and he asked me about mine. Then when he left a bit later, he said to me "good to see you again."

So now I am crying, and trying to figure out if he does want a friendship with me or not. I don't know what to do. I want to know if it is promising, that we talked for so long on the date, and if it is a good sign that he came to our table tonight.