People have rights to choose who they associate with. When people let you know they are done with you, it's unwise to continue bugging them. Sure it hurts but you got to find strength in yourself to leave people alone when they are obvious and clear that they want space from you.

In fact continue bugging people after they want to be left alone, can result in unfortunate consequences. She already talked to pastor about it. She clearly isn't willing to deal with it. Please leave her alone. Don't check what she is doing on FB etc

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