Edit: For me and Art it was a piece of crap. I know other people, other friends, who met their spouses on that site. eHarmony is meant for the relatively specific middle-of-the-road niche of the population of daters, and it all depends on how you fit into that niche. If you're any kind of outlier (not Christian in a predominately Christian area, don't want kids, never been married, struggle with depression, have never been to college, and etc), they're probably not going to be able to match you too well. Unfortunately, they don't tell you that before you pay your money.

I actually had far more dates when I was on Match, tbh. I went on two from eHarmony. Four...out of all of the time I was on there, probably a total of a year, all said and done. The last two times, I cut my membership short which, if you sign up through PayPal, you can do by going into your PayPal account and denying eHarmony permission to continue to withdraw funds. They'll send you a few nasty emails, but what else are they gonna do? Nothing.