I have been reading up on depression anxiety and Narcissistic personality disorder I believe my wife has these disorders but she believes she is truly a bad person it started with her mother then on to a string of bad relationships and it seem that everytime I try to offer her help in some way she has an excuse on why she can't and its so frustrating for me im emotionally exhausted I want to get her in to see some one but she thinks theres a miracle pill she could take to poof make her a better person HOW DO I HELP HER ??

If you have narcissistic personality disorder, you may come across as conceited, boastful or pretentious.(this not so much) You often monopolize conversations. You may belittle or look down on people you perceive as inferior. You may feel a sense of entitlement(this all the time) — and when you don't receive special treatment, you may become impatient or angry.(this is all the time) You may insist on having "the best" of everything — for instance, the best car, athletic club or medical care.(and this all the time)

At the same time, you have trouble handling anything that may be perceived as criticism.(anything that I tell her in a negative way or anything that she precieves as negative this happens) You may have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation. To feel better, you may react with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make yourself appear superior.(this not so much if we argue or something negative happens she will just go to bed and sleep) Or you may feel depressed and moody because you fall short of perfection. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME TO GET HER IN TO SEE SOME ONE