There is a lady called stopdog who mostly posts on the psychology forum and she is a lawyer, how about sending her a PM? I'm so sorry you're having such a stressful time. I live in the UK so I can't offer any practical advice, other than maybe use LinkedIn, depending on what you do for a living, I've found it fantastic. But huge hugs and warmth and comfort sent your way, and a big mug of hot chocolate with marshmallows and sprinkles.