Toxic for sure. And i kno it a paying job for you but really you are off doin your thing, and he's doing his. Sorry u had to hear about it round the way like that.... but, honestly you cant expect someone to hold to relationship rules that you haven and or not holding ursrlf to as well. Did he enjoy the sex, well yeah probably, but most likely only on a purely lustful and vengeful level. Im sure he would have rather been w/ u, but in ur business itd unlikely ur gonna find many faithful worthwhile guys who can handle what u do for work.. unless you meet a guy in the business as well. Idk. Sorry if that came off harsh. I didnt mean to be rude or judgemental. Im just speaking from my own pov.