My T said she didn't have any referrals for me when she retired. I used several other sites in addition to psychology today, and I already contacted two different LGBT organizations for help in getting referrals. I really went all out this past year in my search! My city isn't that big, and there just aren't that many therapists available. I'm also burned on looking, so I'm just not interested in going back on the hunt. It was a really awful experience. I think I would prefer a break over looking again.