Wow! You guys are awesome to have on my side! He is still living with me. He is calm and even nurturing (that's the best description I have) some. For the most part though, we see each other little to none and we are cordial. I'm not sure I need a restraining order but I did ask when he was planning to leave and his response was ambiguous and he implied he won't leave until he has a house ready for he and the kids. As far as I know, he isn't looking.

ElsaMars, it was completely creepy! I even called him on it and he said he was joking. But...he said he may have crossed the line (or the likes of that). It was incredibly misleading and inappropriate!