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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Tricky ... she's responding to your light-hearted messages, but has kind of made it clear, for now, that she doesn't want to meet by not responding to those particular texts.
On the one hand you do say that she's a very forgiving person. Maybe she's had enough time to think this whole thing through and the distance created by you two no longer working in the same place may have helped give her a bit more space too.
It's a pity that she hasn't been receptive to your offer of meeting in the past.
Perhaps once she's processed all of this she may be in a better headspace to meet you.
Don't give up all hope on this friendship just yet.
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Thanks! I will continue trying but I won't be too pushy. I should also mention that one time at work I asked her in person what she was doing a certain day and if we could meet up. She said yes and that she'd text me. She never did and when I asked she said she was sick, but photos of her on Facebook came up on my newsfeed the day we were supposed to get together and she looked just fine. I was really hurt because she had agreed to meet up and I had blocked off the entire day for her. I left that job the day after and told her in a message how hurt I was. That's when she said she had decided she didn't want to speak anymore. Whenever I express my feelings she ignores that too and only responds if I awknoledge her feelings.