My T and I share similar values and beliefs but our lives are so different ( country girl tomboy horse vet vs fashionable urban professional and hockey mom) that I cant imagine how we could become friends. We would need to first be brought together somewhere where our lives intersect... Maybe if we met in yoga class??? Not sure. I feel like we are so alike in some ways that I forget how different we are until I say something like "time to put up second cutting [hay]" and she stares at me blankly or she starts telling me about the amazing new x brand handbag she got and I stare at her blankly....