I've come to be friendly with my T and we do have a lot of things in common but honestly, no, we would not have become friends if we'd met in some other capacity. Mostly because I'm so closed off that I wouldn't have given her a chance; I hardly give anyone a chance. Also because she seemed flaky to me at first.... But a colleague/friend who is very much not flaky had recommended this T to me so I figured I'd give her a shot. I'm so glad I did!