I doubt there would be any sort of reason for connection. The woman is older, straight and does not seem to have any sort of common interests with me. She lives in the same area as I hang out in/have had lovers live in/work in and we have never run into each other in 30 years - I doubt it ever would have come up.
I suppose it is not impossible I could like the woman well enough under different circumstances. I assume I would not despise her, but one never knows.