I don't believe I have transference but T has repeatedly implied that I do -- negative that is. As in, I can't deal with my mother, and so I've interpreted T's words / actions the way I do my mother's (not positively).

Then again, she has interpreted pretty much every distressing relationship in my life -- ranging from ex-girlfriends to quasi love interests and academic advisors -- as a reflection of the relationship with my mother.

So, I guess all my life has been one long bout of unabated maternal transference according to her.

Sorry you're hurting....