Planning purposes what if she knows about Didishness, better cover your tracks. Don't insult her intelligence with recent movies out about tDID, with popular actors and actresses. What industry you work in? Manipulators have there place your feelings should be validated isn't a overeaction at all. Prepare the system to take on the new role and it should come with anxiety. A good company will do their part to prepare. Now if you barely holding on and know this is a total overwhelm, how will get out of this manipulation to the new job if u let the forceful alters fears make the decision to please boss...Hmmm something to think about.