I found the dating sites to be overwhelming and disturbing to be honest. I did meet a couple of guys only one have I continued seeing but it is long distance and not entirely satisfying. although we do have a great time when we do see one another. Its the time in between that is kind of hard. I am not ready personally for 'love and committment' but I am hoping maybe one day he and I will decide on that together. I do like him quite a lot. I'm over 50 and was married just shy of 30 years, he is just over 40 never married and no kids. it's been different.