It's interesting how you react to that statement, I will be curious what others say as well. I tend to be quite sensitive to patronizing, condescending attitudes and often have intense reactions even if I don't express them. But this one actually sounds soothing and genuinely accepting to me. Not sure if it's because I have a tendency to think that my feelings are out of place and overreaction and I often want to drown my own feelings. Perhaps your T said that because many people find it comforting and he does not know you very well yet? So, perhaps tell him how you felt about his statement so that he will know.