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Old Jun 13, 2016, 08:22 PM
Anonymous37893
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Originally Posted by Nammu View Post
Have you thought about going to therapy to learn how to build better relationships with those around you?
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I have. I stopped going since it wasn't helping me. I had a few bad therapists. A lot of them just listened to me talk, and that's it. They didn't offer much help. They have done nothing but blame me for everything. Not everything is my fault.

They have serious issues that they're all in deep denial about. My dad is a narcissistic and he has bipolar disorder and anger issues. Everyone agrees with me on that, my sister, my mom, even my husband. My husband doesn't know how bad he really is though. He does think he's a bit crazy though.

My sister is bipolar and she has ADD too. She lashes out at me when she's stressed out and angry, which is often. My mom is histrionic and paranoid. She's also delusional. It's impossible to talk to her as she'll space out and say huh quite a bit. She can't keep anything secret. She constantly likes to interrupt people. She is the worst listener ever.

My dad will explode if you don't agree with what he says usually. If we don't do what he wants when he wants, he'll get upset. Our feelings don't matter. It's all about what he wants and needs. He is clueless. He has no respect for women. We only exist to please men. He is real sexist and he never helps my mom with the yardwork or the housework. What kind of man does that? He treats her like a child and abuses her financially. It's really sad. He can be calm for only a short period of time. That's why I try to avoid him like hell when I have to be around him.

He never admits to being wrong as he's always right, ugh! Talking to them achieves nothing at all. You can't reason with people who won't listen. They can't see that they're part of the problem. None of them respect me at all. So why should I even try to get along with them anymore? They're lost causes.
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