Boy thats confusing, I would say a trans man is one born female but identifies as male, such as a trans woman is born male but identifies as a female.

Now does one have to be in transition or part of? I no idea.

But me being mtf because this body is like so wrong....I still look male (ugh) but is like gender neutral heavy on the femme side....am I transwoman? I think not because I'm not living the life style AS a woman.

The AS part is the clincher. I'm trans in mind, but not living AS one due to my limitations.