Our identities are created for a reason. I have Bossygirl bc she's like my sister. Lily expresses anger and kicks butt. In a way, I created them, but they are all parts of me. It doesn't mean I'm a liar. I think you need a professional that specializes in trauma and DID. I had one that diagnosed me as schizophrenic and really messed me up and made me feel hopeless and crazy. If you have DID and go to a professional that doesn't believe in it, it's hurtful.