I don't understand it.

Agreed, a goodbye thread can be upsetting to some. But what about the many of us who find the total disappearance of someone MORE upsetting?

And before I get this told to me...I get the privacy thing. Totally understand that.

I guess my questions are rhetorical. I don't really want to revisit this thread as life isn't going so well for me at the moment and I don't need any more negativity in it.

So. Thanks for listening. Please....don't comment. It's just feedback.