Hi! My spouse is trans and is finally actually transition. Their progress has been making me think deeper about myself.

I have always felt like I have a male brain. when I go through my buzz cut /short hair phases I frequently get referred to with male pronouns and things like that. My sexual orientation is that of "I don't care about your gender" I guess this is why I have had no issues with my spouse transition, except for worrying about them through it all.

My issue is that I feel that I am truly androgynous. I have no desire to be purely one gender or the other. Quite honestly I wished I could get rid of my breasts. I wear tight sports bras and that makes me feel more comfortable.

I do not like being a gendered person