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Old Jun 14, 2016, 05:38 PM
IceCreamKid IceCreamKid is offline
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When I was reading your reply I remembered seeing a former professor of mine online looking for other people for a Meetup group. He's really handsome, but the picture he posted made him look stern and unapproachable. The guy is a genius, but he doesn't do 'normal' very well.

I tend to agree with Sophiesmom--you may be giving off what could be interpreted as an 'attached already' vibe.

If I were in the market for someone, this is what I'd do--I'd go to events where I thought people who might interest me would be. For me that would be charitable things. There is something about volunteering that brings out the conversation in people. And just about everything has some sort of charitable/volunteer organization that intersects in some way.

I'd also have a future event I was planning on attending -- and as I met people and got to talking I would ask them if they had thought of going to that.

There is a supermarket near where I live that is just hopping with events and it's always filled with upscale younger people. I think your dates are out there--you just haven't met them yet--courage!