Hello Mary-Jane: The Skeezyks doesn't really have any words of wisdom for you here. I'd simply like to send some warm thoughts your way with the hope that you will be able to find your way through this difficult, yet potentially rewarding, situation. I guess the only thing I can really say is to try not to read too much into the relationship & try to avoid looking too far ahead. Just take it one step at a time & see where it leads...