Get a lawyer ASAP. Well if he makes three times more he needs to pay for stuff. Including for your move etc. or refinance etc You have kids. Where does he want you to move? With kids? You can't just up and move. He cannot ask for that. Get those papers and see a lawyer. Go by what the lawyer says ( you can maybe pay lawyer in installments if you can't afford it right now ). That's what my fiancée did, he paid his divorce lawyer for over few years in small installments.

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