I would like to ask a question to all of you guys, and it would be great if we could start a discussion bringing our own experiences forward.

Like many here I have been suffering from clinical depression for a long time, and like many here I have seen many of my relationships, whether friendships or romantic, being crushed into pieces because of my condition.

After my latest breakup, a few months ago now, I have developed a sort of fear of engaging in any sort of relationship outside family or professional circles. On one hand, I feel I have to protect myself from the hardships of an often dysfunctional relationship, and on the other hand I feel I have to protect my potential partner from my condition, with the result that I stopped looking for a partner or even new friends and I realize I have become progressively isolated.

Sometimes loneliness is hard, but on the other hand I don't want to risk ruining another relationship because of depression, so I feel it almost as a duty to refrain.

I would appreciate it if you could share advice and some of your experiences here.