Just to add, I've found that divorce requires A LOT of negotiation! Just because he's proposed something and is serving you the papers that does not mean that is what will happen. He's just serving you papers to acknowledge the breakdown of the marriage etc and what he wants from the divorce.

I don't know of any solicitor/lawyer or judge who will act in favour of a husband who earns 3x more than his wife who has to xare for and home their children. That's just not what happens at all and if it did then that is total mis practice