Thank you for the reply.

These are my thoughts on why we haven't met. We live very far apart so it would be a big expensive trip. If we were to meet I would insist he would come to me, because I think that is appropriate for the man to come to the woman.

He lost his job a couple years ago and collected unemployment for awhile. Then he got a serious injury in an accident and couldn't work. I think he is just recently fully getting over his injury. He's looking into getting back to work now. But the point is, I think he has been strapped for money, so him being able to visit me was out of the question.

If he goes back to work and starts making money again, its possible though he will have money to travel. Things might change then.

Then again, I could be holding my breath.

I think we are both people that take things slow. I haven't felt comfortable meeting him up until now, anyways. It would be a huge thing, if it were to happen. And he would need to come to me. I think we are both nervous about the idea of meeting each other. At least I know I am, and he has implied he is too.