Hi Ceara,
Yes I am in the UK.Well the policeman listened and spend a lot of time getting the background,I explained what had been going on,quite a lot of stuff had been moved around and locks rendered useless by the taking away of keys.And she had put stuff in the house like in wardrobes etc which I had given her to take to charity shops last time I was ill.An old battered pair of shoes and some trainers and a jacket and the dildo she was supposed to throw away.

Basically he explained there was no damage done to property and nothing stolen so it isn't criminal trespass,it is civil trespass,and the problem is there is no actual evidence she's been in my house and there is only my word for it stuff has been moved about.

The penalties for trespass are very light usually a slap on the wrist.

What he did do though was make out a domestic violence report to have on file together with a letter I sent to the police back in 2014 last time she tried to harm me. He said if anything else happens and it is a police matter and she tries it on they will act from there and help if they can.

It is frightening me when you say your stalker sees every attempt to block them as a challenge to overcome.I am frightened my sister is determined to do that too and her ultimate goal is to bring about my death.

Isn't it worth for you to get the simple alarm even though you don't sleep in the house,at least every time it goes off you will know he's paid another visit?

I was reassured by the policeman saying he would file the domestic violence report and he said if I change the locks there is no way she can get in.So it should mean I am safe but it is daft part of me fears even if I change the locks she can still get in,that is how crazy and irrational I am thinking now cos she has freaked me out big time.

I am giving her more power than she has cos I know how devious and cunning she is and how she can break the law and get away with it,she drove me to suicidal actions twice in the past.She is a narcissist and a sadist and she hates me big time I suspect she is obsessed with me too cos she tried to steal my identity ,my interests, my life.