I get the sense he has some sexual issues. He does go to prostitutes and he told me he's too shy to talk to women. I actually thought that was cute. I would prefer to be with a guy like that than a guy who is a player and a womanizer.
As for money, as I said I think his money problems are because he's been out of work and then got injured. Otherwise he is able and willing to work. I don't even want kids either. I don't think he does either. I told him "No kids" but then he said "If we have kids....."
So maybe he wants them? We are both getting close to 40 though so I doubt it will happen.
All I really want is him, even if he doesn't have a lot of money and if he's shy. I don't need some flashy rich husband with a corporate job. Just someone who makes me happy.