I have never brought up the idea of skyping or talking on the phone because I wouldn't want to. I have a slight phobia of that kind of thing.

He has sent me a couple voice recordings though.

I think its probably just a fantasy too. Its a form of escapism we are both doing now, I think. He is actually still pretty mysterious to me. I haven't pushed him for more photos or more "real" contact. Mainly because I wouldn't be comfortable if he were to push me, so it doesn't seem fair for me to. Maybe this is the only kind of relationship both of us can handle now.