Scorpio.....I think you are right.

The guy is showing all the red flags. Lately he seems to be changing how he is coming across, to me. He is coming across as sweeter, more vulnerable and innocent. While before he was more aggressive.

The sweeter style is making me lower my defenses now.

Its like I'm forgetting the earlier him that was scaring me and giving me nightmares.

I went back and read my old thread and it brought some of it back. He is doubling down on charming me, now, for some reason. I still can't figure out what he wants from me. I must just be an easy, convenient target for whatever reason. Other women probably know how to set boundaries better. I'm too easily manipulated, I guess.

Thank you for all the advice. You two have given me a lot to think about. Brought me back down to reality a bit.

I doubt I will block him or ignore him or anything. But at least I'm trying to clear the fog and think more straight now.